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Happy New Year, my dearest friends!
As I sit here on the first day of 2023, I can’t help but reflect on the past year and all the ups and downs it brought. But as they say, “time heals all wounds,” and I am so excited to leave the past behind and start fresh in this new year.
I have so many hopes and dreams for 2023. I want to travel to new places, try new things, and make meaningful connections with those around me. I want to be more present in each moment, and make the most of every opportunity that comes my way.
Most of all, I want to be a source of light and positivity for those around me. It can be easy to get caught up in the chaos of the world, but I believe that we all have the power to make a difference and spread love and kindness.
Here’s to a bright and beautiful 2023, full of growth, adventure, and love. Cheers!
Do Autistic people all have special skills?
Autistic people may have unique skills and abilities, but it’s important to remember that every individual with autism is different and has their own strengths and challenges. Some Autistic people may have exceptional abilities in certain areas, such as music, art, math, or memory, while others may have more difficulty with certain skills.
It’s also important to recognize that everyone, regardless of whether they have autism or not, has their own strengths and challenges.
It’s not fair or accurate to make generalizations about Autistic people, or to assume that they all have special skills or abilities.
It’s important to focus on supporting individuals with autism in a way that meets their individual needs and helps them to reach their full potential. This may involve providing accommodations, such as extra time or a quiet place to work, or working with a therapist or other specialized professionals to address any challenges they may be facing.
How do I let people know that I have autism?
If you decide that you want to let people know that you have autism, there are a few things you can do to communicate this information:
- Choose the right time and place: Consider the context in which you want to disclose your autism. Is it a casual conversation with a friend or a more formal setting, such as a job interview? Choose a time and place where you feel comfortable and where you feel that the person you are disclosing to is likely to be receptive.
- Be prepared: Think about what you want to say and how you want to say it. It can be helpful to have a script or outline in mind to help you communicate your thoughts clearly.
- Keep it simple: It’s important to be clear and concise when disclosing your autism. Explain what autism is and how it affects you, but try to avoid going into too much detail or getting sidetracked.
- Be open to questions: It’s natural for people to have questions about autism, especially if they are not familiar with the condition. Be prepared to answer questions and provide additional information if necessary.
- Remember that it’s okay to say no: You have the right to decide whether or not to disclose your autism, and it’s okay to say no if you don’t feel comfortable doing so.
It’s also important to keep in mind that everyone is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. It may take some trial and error to find what works best for you.
Should I let people know that I am autistic?
It’s ultimately up to you to decide whether or not to disclose your autism to others. There are pros and cons to consider when deciding whether or not to disclose your autism.
- Sharing your diagnosis with others can help them understand why you may have difficulty expressing or interpreting emotions, or why you may communicate or socialize differently than they do.
- Disclosing your autism can help others to be more understanding and supportive of your needs.
- Being open about your autism can also help to raise awareness and reduce stigma surrounding the condition.
- Some people may not understand or may have misconceptions about autism, which could lead to misunderstandings or discrimination.
- Disclosing your autism may also lead to unwanted attention or prying questions.
Ultimately, the decision to disclose your autism is a personal one and should be based on your own comfort level and what you feel is best for you. If you do decide to disclose your autism, it can be helpful to educate others about the condition and to be clear about your needs and preferences.
I am autistic and people perceive me as emotionless
It’s common for Autistic people to have difficulty expressing their emotions or interpreting the emotions of others. This can lead to misunderstandings and people perceiving them as being emotionless. If you are on the autism spectrum and want to improve your ability to express and recognize emotions, here are a few things you can try:
- Seek support: A therapist or counselor who is experienced in working with individuals on the autism spectrum can provide you with support and guidance as you work on understanding and expressing your emotions.
- Practice identifying and labeling emotions: One way to better understand your own emotions and those of others is to practice identifying and labeling different emotions. You can do this by looking at pictures of people with different facial expressions or reading stories that describe different emotions.
- Learn about nonverbal cues: Paying attention to nonverbal cues, such as facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice, can help you better understand the emotions of others.
- Practice social skills: Developing social skills, such as making eye contact, using appropriate body language, and engaging in small talk, can help you better connect with others and convey your emotions.
- Use social stories: Social stories are short, written descriptions of social situations that can help individuals on the autism spectrum better understand and navigate social situations. You may find it helpful to create social stories that focus on emotions and how to express them.
How do babies/very young children with autism self regulate?
Self-regulation is the ability to manage thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in response to the demands of the environment. It is an important skill that can help individuals cope with stress and navigate challenging situations. Babies and young children with autism may have difficulty with self-regulation due to their limited ability to communicate their needs and emotions and their limited experience with the world around them.
There are several strategies that parents and caregivers of babies with autism can use to help their child self-regulate:
- Provide a predictable and structured environment: A predictable and structured environment can help babies with autism feel more secure and can make it easier for them to understand and respond to the expectations of those around them.
- Use visual supports: Visual supports, such as picture schedules or social stories, can help babies with autism understand and anticipate changes in their environment and can be a helpful tool for self-regulation.
- Engage in sensory activities: Sensory activities, such as playing with playdough or blowing bubbles, can be a helpful way for babies with autism to regulate their sensory input and to cope with stress or anxiety.
- Use verbal and nonverbal communication: Using both verbal and nonverbal communication, such as facial expressions and gestures, can help babies with autism understand and express their emotions and can be a helpful tool for self-regulation.
- Provide comforting touch: Providing comforting touch, such as a hug or a gentle massage, can be a helpful way for babies with autism to regulate their sensory input and to cope with stress or anxiety.
It is important to remember that every child is different and what works for one child may not work for another. It may be helpful to try a variety of strategies and see what works best for your child. It is also important to speak with a qualified healthcare professional for guidance and recommendations based on your child’s specific needs.
What equipment could I use to help me self regulate?
There are many tools and equipment that can be helpful for self-regulation, and the best options will depend on your individual needs and preferences. Some tools and equipment that may be helpful for self-regulation include:
- Sensory toys and tools: Sensory toys and tools, such as stress balls, fidget spinners, or therapy putty, can provide a sensory outlet and can be helpful for managing stress or anxiety.
- Weighted blankets or lap pads: Weighted blankets and lap pads can provide a sense of deep pressure touch, which can be calming and soothing for some individuals.
- Noise-cancelling headphones\Ear defenders: Noise-cancelling headphones and Ear-defenders can be helpful for blocking out external noise and distractions and can be a useful tool for regulating sensory input.
- Trampolines or balance boards: Trampolines and balance boards can provide a sensory outlet and can be helpful for regulating sensory input and releasing pent-up energy.
- Aromatherapy diffusers: Aromatherapy diffusers can be used to disperse essential oils into the air, which can have a calming effect on the body and mind.
- Light and sound therapy devices: Light and sound therapy devices, such as a light box or a white noise machine, can be helpful for regulating sensory input and managing stress or anxiety.
It is important to note that everyone is different and what works for one person may not work for another. It may be helpful to try a variety of tools and equipment and see what works best for you. It is also important to speak with a qualified healthcare professional before using any new equipment or tools, as they can provide guidance and recommendations based on your specific needs.
I only do stimming in private as I feel ashamed to do it in public.
Stimming, or self-stimulatory behavior, is a common characteristic of autism and is often used as a way to regulate sensory input or to cope with stress or anxiety. Stimming can take many forms, such as hand flapping, rocking, spinning, or repeating certain actions or movements. It is important to note that stimming is a normal and often necessary behavior for many individuals on the autism spectrum, and it is not something that should be discouraged or punished.
If you feel ashamed or self-conscious about your stimming behaviors, it may be helpful to remember that these behaviors are a normal and healthy way for you to cope with your environment. It is also important to recognize that everyone is different and that there is no one “right” way to be. It is okay to stim in private if that makes you feel more comfortable, but it is also important to try to find ways to feel more comfortable stimming in public if it is something that is important to you. This might involve finding supportive friends or a therapist who can help you feel more comfortable with your behaviors, or finding ways to communicate your needs to others.
In addition to stimming, what other ways are there to help me self regulate?
Self-regulation is the ability to manage your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in response to the demands of your environment. It is an important skill that can help you cope with stress and navigate challenging situations. There are many strategies that can be helpful for self-regulation, and it may be helpful to try a variety of techniques to see what works best for you. Some strategies that may be helpful for self-regulation include:
- Deep breathing exercises: Taking slow, deep breaths can help to calm the body and mind and can be a helpful way to regulate sensory input.
- Fidget toys: Using a small, discreet toy, such as a stress ball or a fidget spinner, can provide a sensory outlet and can be helpful for managing stress or anxiety.
- Progressive muscle relaxation: Tensing and relaxing different muscle groups can help to reduce tension and promote relaxation.
- Mindfulness techniques: Focusing on the present moment and being aware of your thoughts and feelings can help you to better manage your emotions and reactions to stress.
- Exercise: Physical activity can be a great way to regulate sensory input and to release pent-up energy.
- Creative activities: Engaging in creative activities such as drawing, painting, or coloring can be a helpful way to regulate sensory input and to express emotions.
- Sensory breaks: Taking a break to engage in a sensory activity, such as listening to music or using a sensory tool, can be a helpful way to regulate sensory input and manage stress or anxiety.
- Seeking support: It can be helpful to talk to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist about your feelings and struggles. Receiving support and understanding can be a powerful way to regulate your emotions and behaviors.
It is important to remember that self-regulation is a skill that can be learned and improved upon over time. It may take some trial and error to find what works best for you, but with practice and patience, you can develop effective self-regulation strategies.